Do you ever feel that you want to pull out all your hair or your partner's hair when you can't get a solution to a discussion? Do you ever feel you want to bash their head in to get it over with but then that would be murder isn't and it would be a different new ballgame (Joke,lol! Sometimes you get so hopeless and disgusted that you feel you want to do that. hehe) You're so exasperated and restless but still you want to resolve it and make the other person understand, so what do you do? What do people do in an argument? When you're all bent up and blinded by your anger, what do you do to calm down? When you're trying to calm down and think rationally, when you want to get it over with, when you want the other person to understand or when you want to get your point across. What do you do to resolve it?

Use other words that would make them understand... works for me... sometimes.

then give us an example man kabsat.....

Talk calmly and holding them, assuring them     

assuring of what naman kabsat?

Well I think sometimes you get into an argument just because the person just doesn't get your point yet. So it helps to try to explain again from a different perspective. But you should also look at it from the other person's point-of-view. 2 cents

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actually, my answer is 1, 2, 4, 8...yan ang mag approaches ko when i am into an argument...it is hard just to keep quiet especially if you know you are right...mahirap din ang sumunod ka na lang...yung bow ng bow...yung di mo explain sa kanya ang mali nya....ikaw rin ang kawawa sa huli!

d b,hirap kainin yung pride lalo na kung alam na maling-mali sila and kung gaano ka katama, but my mom used to say, that's the role of women in a relationship, we make sacrifices, even if it means trying not to step on the male ego. di ba nga, a guy would waste a whole tank full of gas just as not to admit that he didn't need a map or you guys are lost, he won't ask directions so will continue going round and round.hehe...guys, these are just opinions okay? peace out.hehehehe, you can tell us your views.

generally you are right, but not all kish.. your mom is partially right.. but im not sure she may mean a deeper thing. Women should always be the support for men lalo na sa married couples and it even applies to bf/gf. But that does not mean na you will say yes always kahit alam mong mali na ung lalake.. you can do that by not stepping on his ego.. and as the famous saying say.. Behind great men is a woman.. that's true.. women play a very important role... lalo na sa relationship.. d ko masyado maexplain.. pero that's how i see it.. basing it on other's experiences and testimony.. but that's for me.. that's my opinion... 

u have point there kabsat.... O0

Sometimes people are taken by their emotions, they become stubborn and argue in anyway that they can- even to the point that the argument becomes senseless. I got to an argument just lately with my senior at work. She keeps on insisting to me a particular matter when I know in fact that she is wrong. I tried to argue, but because she is older and my senior at work, she speaks louder, faster and would not let me finish a single sentence. What I did was to listen, when she asked me if I understood, I said, "no". Then I said, "I'll prove it to you. I'll show you tomorrow." The next day, she rationalized and she is more like human to talk to than the past day. I show her all my proof and she lost face. I was really upset, but the next day i had retribution! hehehe

Something I learned long before... nobody ever wins in a debate.

hehehe 

I use the "jimili tongue-lashing" technique  :knuppel:

hmmmm... i guess that ought to work...  ;D

Shout, scream, smash stuff up, punch stuff...........................................
This is what to do in an arguement right?
Stopping one is completely different.

which part kabsat? ;D

[i][b]what to do in an argument?

hmnn..let him/her do the talking first! when finished..fire! hehehe! tell what you want...ur reactions!  :knuppel:[/b][/i]