I asked this question in another forum, but I'll do it again coz I'm curious.

For most people, the perspective of an age gap relationship is always somewhat freaky. Probably is a combination of factors... a culture that glorifies youth, stereotypes, mean jokes about age and looks of "old" people, the reaction of ur family and friends, fear of the future -when I'm 30 he's gonna be 65, yikes!!- etc...

    * Are you in an age gap relationship?
    * What's the gap?
    * Did you freak out at first?
    * About what?

    * If ur not, what's the biggest gap you'd tolerate?
    * What freaks you out about it?

age-gap relationship....just imagine if you're 24 and your partner is 50!! yucks! I am thinking of the sex....it's like kissing a corpse!

the gap: ideas and sex

...hey i'm in an age-gap rel
...1 year gap
...why should i freak out
... about what?

was in an age-gap relationship
6 years
never freaked out but my friends did...

age gap..hmmm..b4 wen i waz in hi-skul i was so idealistic ..sabi ko sa sarili ko i woud go 4 a guy 2-3 years older than me..pero nung may nanligaw nmn sa akin mas bata nmn..hehe 17 ako nun tas ung guy 15,,nasa bsu na ako nun freshmen tas ung guy 3rd year hi-sa san jose..heheh..pero d ko cia pinatulan heheh..tas may 20 years old din nun crim student ng ub..kaya lang masyado namng idealistic..d ko ma-reach ang standards nia..i end up wit a younger guy again..heheh a year younger..nung una medjo nahihiya ako kc ung mga kaibigan ko medjo d cla convince s ganung set-up..but it turn out..juz fine actually mas matured p mag isip kesa s akin..

age gap is nuthin dis days parang sa sex din dba..sa culture ntin d accepted ang pre-marital sex..pero nagayon ok lang nmn..age doesnt matter in a relationship..mas importante ung maturity..hehehhe

I've seen lots of post-retirement guys (foreigners) around Baguio with young girls with kids that I assume to be their wife. I agree it looks weird but it's ok. ;D

Right now I'm in my mid-20s and I'd consider an age gap of 10 for myself as ok. But that would probably increase as i get older. ;D

Aii, Gummy is taken.  :'(

...well, that was before...hehehe

Ahh.. I'll put in a reservation then. :smiley66:
"Gummy & Roald" tag, under my avatar.  :angel:

....wahahaha....can't just imagine it...and the things you said about that avatar of yours.... >

I'll change the tag, and you'll see. 8) I know you would be  :tickedoff: but you are tooo far away to smack me.  >

...yeah too bad, your sooooo far away for my  :smitten:

Let me take a trip to the mainland. Take just some hour.

;D ;D ;D when my mom told me my 21 yo sis is marrying a 30yish guy, i nearly freak out. but my mompointed out "isu tumal naan na, the man is matured to handle her." ehehehhe...so i shut my mouth.

apay importante aya gamin age gap? ;D ;D ;D ;D depende kadi ti ikasta nga manghandle.

Why is age gap something freaky for so many?

who is so many?

i know someone so, manny

adda inarem ko idi maysa a tawen nga inmununa no syak. idi ruggiak agarem ket kunana nga haan nga pumatpatol iti ading sunga napaayak. mariknak nga adda met ti pitik na kanyak ngem nasauna gaminen. napalabas ti ado a tawen idi mangasawa isuna ket 3 years nga ububing met no isuna. apay dadiay? :-\ :-\ :-[

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adda inarem ko idi maysa a tawen nga inmununa no syak. idi ruggiak agarem ket kunana nga haan nga pumatpatol iti ading sunga napaayak. mariknak nga adda met ti pitik na kanyak ngem nasauna gaminen. napalabas ti ado a tawen idi mangasawa isuna ket 3 years nga ububing met no isuna. apay dadiay? :-\ :-\ :-[
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toinks! parang kilala ko yun ha... :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

maybe she measures ub ubing not by age of birth but d number of wrinkles you have.

u should have faked it.

the biggest gap ive tolerated was 10 years. 

there's nothing freaky about it.. its fine.. as long as I release...

while we're discussing the nature of may-december affiair", one of my korean students said that:

If  a  man is old with a  younger partner, that man is a thief..
If a woman is old with a younger partner, that woman has good ability...

I rather go with a woman with good ability than be called a thief.   

hehehehehehe