sometimes insecurity leads to jealousy which often leads to break up.

insecure of your bf/gf's ex? how do you handle this?

jealousy  is  a  sign  of  love  sometimes  but  if  you  are  insecure  to  the  one  you  love  is  not  a  good  recipe  of  love...........  you  should  be  thankful  your  partner  is  one  you  can  consider  better.................... :smitten:

Make them feel na mahal na mahal mo sya....Pag gumanti sayo un, cgurado hindi ka na insecure nyan 

hear  it  from  the  experienced........... O0  kaya  tuloy.........

kahit cno kaya alam un....

yan  ang  gusto ko  sa  iyo ehhh  basta  in  regards  to  love...  give  na  give  ka  pare... O0

...jealousy??.sometimes it is an expression of a true love!!.. but insecurity is definitely not!!..its a blessing if your partner has more than what you have..and you should be thankful for that... insecurity never signify a true love..

Yan ang inosente 

o diba?.pati si kuya charlie nag rereveal na ng totoo...hehehe.. :smitten:

loving is indeed full of risks...  when you love and the other person knows it, it is as if you've let yourself  vulnerable to pain...

having insecurities  is just an initial feeling... but once you learn to trust and like what CharlieMontemayor said, "Make them feel na mahal na mahal mo sya....Pag gumanti sayo un, cgurado hindi ka na insecure nyan"...

everything is just a matter of time... 

LOVE TAKES time , ba??

gusto ko yung linyang:

love takes time to heal when it hurts so much

sometime current gf's are insecure of ex coz he still have communication wid the ex, as a friend though, but girls don't understand it. they want the guy's attention all for themselves... toinks! piz

it depends ate peach...if communication lang it's ok...i can take that..hindi naman ata insecurity yun..jealousy..hehehehe...parang ako..bbbeeelllaaattttt..

pag insecure di na ata jealousy yun ahm low esteem na dun... hehehhehe! man, show your best!

insecure is not confident enough to know that he loves you, perhaps you might want more assurance from him, it falls to jealousy when you want more attention or commitment and he won't give it to you because he thought you mistrust him by being insecure, that's what i thought

insecurity = jealousy
jealousy is the absence of trust
No trust means no love
Jealousy is not love... O0 O0 O0


The Filipino understanding of Jealousy:

"Ang selos ay tanda ng pagmamahal" jealousy here is not insecurity...it is actually the worry that there might be something bad that will happen to the one you love...Halimbawa...on the level of parent-child relationship, the daughter goes out on a date to some one you dont really know...d un selos, pag-aalala...d un insecurity...ganun din if for instance ur GF/BF goes out with an acquiantance, if you claim u love the person, there is trust no jealousy nor insecurity...what you feel when they go out with others if the fear or worry n baka my gawin ung kasama niya sa bf/gf m but not really you being insecured n baka ipagpalit ka...ala lng...just thinking... : : :

mmm.. "your GF/bf going out with an "ACQUAINTANCE" and there should be no jealousy nor insecurity because of turst"... i beg to disagree... the word is already there. Your gf/bf's companion is just an acquaintance, so apparently you he doesnt know him/her that well yet. I may trust my gf/bf i definitely dont trust the "acquaintance.. just yet...

  And besides if your gf/bf is jealous you should take that positively... she/he probably thinks you are still marketable despite being sold already... baka me maki bid pa! ;D

That's basically it... insecurity would mean that you are not confident with who you are so if ur bf/gf would be going out with an acquiantance, you feel insecure..But if u luv the other person, you may be worried that something might hapen to your bf/gf with the new person...its not about insecurity...just worry....again, for filipino understanding of selos, its actually the worry not the insecurity coz if that would be insecurity then, that would not be love anymore....Kaya tau we say, "selos ay tanda ng pagmamahal"...and yes, dun n pumapasok n pag ung paniniwala n pag nagseselos bf/gf m, ud say, "uuuyyy, mahal niya ako"... ^-^ ^-^ ^-^

then maybe i am not insecure ngarud. i am worried.. > Thanks for clarifying

  feeling insecure and vulnerable comes with loving someone... i think thats the thing that would make a woman (or atleast me) really love a man... you know, someone who makes you feel weak in the knees... a little insecure and open to the vunerability of getting hurt... you know secure yet insecure... strong yet weak at the same time....