what is the easiest thing to do "forgive the person who hurt you or forget the person who did wrong thing to you....?

i don't think you can do both

it's like a wound the scar remains but through reconciliation like the scar it doesn't hurt.
                                                                                            ---- askal -----


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forgive... people never forget.. no matter how much u wish and ask them to... :idiot: :idiot:

you can't just forgive and forget at once...

its a long process....

why then??... i mean, you can hear this a lot.. forgive and forget kano.. no adda agibaga kenyak ijay as advice, kugtarak :buck2: :buck2:

back kick pards....

i hear people needs other people just to listen.. not give advices... those who do that are either insensitive bordering ignorance and selfishly stupid.. i think

I agree.  It is really frustrating when you want to vent out something and you started telling your supposed friend who earlier told you that she is there to listen. then whamm!! the moment she heard the first sentence she started telling you about her own problems which she somehow connected to your first sentence...so you end up listening to her problems and you go home even more frustrated.
Listening is really hard to do and only few people can do it. Most people I know just loves hearing themselves talk. saaad tsk tsk

yaaahhh...
instead of listening to your problem

it tells her problem.... tsk tsk tsk

turn of event... 

I say I can forgive but don't expect me to forget. I mean ok you did something wrong and you hurt me So ok I forgive you but Don't think i will talk to you with my best smile like nothing happened.
sabi nga ni askal bout the scar though it doesn't hurt it is there.

is there no second chance???

i mean if he really sorry about what happened...

of course that's why I forgave him/her but it is really hard to pretend nothing happened. Maybe I will forget..maybe not. I'm hoping I will though...like I hope the scar will fade. some scars fade in time others don't.

that depends on the scar it implicated ...

oh yeah.. if you steal my ballpen ok, If you still my man? it's third degree burn.

:2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

you sure do know your stuff O0 O0

i think based on her experience...

forgive ....the person who hurt my feelings and never forget.....so i won't make the same mistake again or in other words avoid being hurt but we learn from our mistakes and i don't condemned anyone...it's not meant to be if it turns out the least u expect and hoped for...

but that sometimes happens...
the thing there is

we are just mere humans
we make mistakes sometimes
and take it as an experience to make us
stronger and better person..  O0 O0

thanks defined.