It’s kinda hard especially if it’s happening to you right now. They say, marry someone who you can’t live without. What if you don’t love them the way they feel for you?

its really hard... i've experience it. You'll just end up hurting someone because it would be unfair to him/her not giving back the love he/she lets you feel. They say soon you'll learn how to love him/her but i guess that is a difficult one.. what if during the time you are learning him/her to love and finally had learned to love him/her as they have love you and the cituation turns they other way around.. nagbago cya.. d b? its really hard...  :-X

kaya nga wen it comes to LOVE hayzzzz ang laging ? ...kaya ingats ingats n lang sa pagpili...

Definitely somebody you love. You don't have to settle for someone whom you don't love even if she/ he loves you. "You live to love" not "you learn to love." Am making sense here? hehehe  :uglystupid:

yup you are and i do agree with what you have said.. 

somebody who loves me... fed up loving guys and waiting for them to dump me for no reason at all :tickedoff:

Bro! Is that somebody you love or one who loves you?

next time don't wait for them to dump you....do the dumping. love 'em then leave 'em...for no reason at all. 

haan kadi. those guys weren't the right ones, i guess. be thankful na lang you didn't end up with one of them. hehe.

Hi, can I ask something??Whom I will choose is somebody I love or the one who loves me???Right now I'm experiencing that. I'm very much confused and I don't know what to do. I think I'm falling to somebody but I am committed to other and I know that "Other" loves me so much. :-\

Caution: This has some flavor of gender discrimination


If you're female, go for someone who loves you [for security reason], and then learn to love him..

if you're a male, go for someone whom you love [unless you're desperate]

i'd rather be with the one i love than the one who loves me.. no matter what you do, you can never learn to love someone.. love is something natural.. it grows when it's nurtured.. it's not something we can force out of our hypothalamus.. ;D ;D

Sorry but if you've been dumped by a few "guys" and in your opinion " for no reason" I think you're kidding yourself!!

Maybe you have a re-think

Caution: This has some flavor of gender discrimination


If you're female, go for someone who loves you [for security reason], and then learn to love him..

if you're a male, go for someone whom you love [unless you're desperate]


Im 100& female

hmmm.... "The art of letting go" this song is about what you are experiencing today but the question is, can you handle what the song says? 

You will regret if you choose "not to follow your heart" for years.  Its better to tell the guy or gal that you don't have feelings for him.  I know its hard but its the only option you have rather than commiting to that person for the rest of your life.

somebody i love.. i can't be that unfair to the person who loves me but i don't love her back. unless she wants it that way > >

i cant actually define infatuation unto "real love". But I think your right . Thanks for the piece of advice...

but sometimes... you can also love that person who loves you and it takes time.

... but if I have my way and a choice, i'll have them both... > >

you know what Im totally turned off to the person I loved.......now Im free..........

that's why it is always nice to "collect and collect and collect more, then select the best" > >